Am i being to harsh and expecting too much from my boyfriend?

After leaving university its hit me really hard that I've lost contact with a lot of my ,what I thought were, close friends. They've been arranging things and having get togethers without me and I know its my fault because I'm super sensitive but I can't help but let it affect me. I tell my boyfriend what's wrong but I feel guilty almost as if I'm saying he's not enough and I need my friend which isn't the case I just miss the female company and and having silly girly chats. I love my boyfriend but I tell him what's wrong and he says 'oh that's ****' then can't understand why I'm still upset and acts as if nothings wrong and calls me moody. I feel guilty because I've been up and down with my moods a lot lately but I'm just not happy at the minute I feel so isolated and disconnected but I feel if I tell my boyriend this it will make him feel inferior and think ' is she still going on about this' I don't know what to do to make myself feel happier! He gets frustrated with me because although I'm never mean sometimes I'm short wih him in messages so when he starts being frustrated at me it makes me go in a mood with him which I hate because I know he hasn't done anything wrong he's jjust not that empathetic which he can't help! Am I being to harsh , should I talk to him aboiut it more?